I can only say that the reason why you were banned from the SBM Cytube was because on Thanksgiving night, you were being disrespectful to Prez when he was talking about his problems and then you said "lol". And you admitted on the SBC shoutbox that you thought he was joking..........which doesn't make any sense at all. I don't think what Prez discussed on there would be joking matter at all. In fact, it would never be joking matter AT ALL. And you also kept saying stuff like "other word for Dug that starts with F" while he was talking about them. Almost like you didn't want to talk about the topic at hand. So yeah, I can understand why your ban from there was justifiable.
I think one thing that would help your reputation on this site. is that you actually contribute to serious discussions on here. I like joking around as much as the next guy does, but I still have my limits. Kinda tone down on saying stuff like "other word for Dug" at random times and get serious for a while, which I believe is the reason why most of the people on here get annoyed. I don't hate you or anything, I'm just trying to give out advice that will help you get accepted by other members on this site.
But I'm in no need to argue right now. No one should. It's Christmas Eve. Let's let this wait until after the holidays.